Simple because we know him/her better now and understood
the unsettling’s which we avoided earlier out of desperation of falling in love,
which is now hurting our self-respect and making us miserable. As our life
revolves around binary Numbers like ‘0 zero’ or ‘1 one’, here is the same ‘either’
and ‘or’; EITHER continue being into the relationship which is very much obvious,
OR call it quits which is weighs so heavily on your soul. We give it a chance
again and again, for the reason we started. We quit because this relationship
is making us miserable and continuously sad that means we are unhappy. We quit
if the only memories we are now creating is biting our heart and bringing tears
to our eyes. We quit when we all want is to feel loved and wanted and this
relationship does not provide one. We quit when the person we are with broke our
trust and we don’t believe it to be reparable or if this person don’t even make
an effort to repair it. We quit when this person does not respect our emotions
and take us for granted every now and then just because he knows he is wanted. So
our best option is to walk out the door and leave it behind, which is simply
not worth our time. We deserve to be loved for being the wonderful, unique
person we are. There’s no reason to allow ourselves to be with such a person.
There are people out there who will love us for what we are. We just need to
find them.
उसूलों पे जहाँ
आँच आए टकराना
ज़रूरी है, जो ज़िंदा
हों तो फिर ज़िंदा नज़र
आना ज़रूरी है..
