"Have a history of making decisions very quickly about men. Have always fallen fast and without measuring risks. Have a tendency not only to see the best in everyone, but to assume that everyone is emotionally capable of reaching his highest potential. Have fallen more times than care to count with the highest potential of a man, rather than with the man himself, and have hung on to the relationship for a long time (sometimes far too long) waiting for the man to ascend to his own greatness. Many times in romance, have been a victim of my own optimism."