How long one should stay at particular milestone once achieved?

It took me nearly a month’s time to get the answer.

1. You will know it once you started feeling so angry and ignored however you should know you’re WINNING when you see you’re being copied. Keep inspiring, be happy, be a leader and move ahead.

2. When no charm left and we started feeling Bore. Know it, it’s time for evolution and growth. Understand, some of the greatest inventions did not just take place out of necessity but because someone was bored, they wanted something new. If necessity is the mother of invention, boredom may well be the father. It simply means you need to stimulate your mind and find something that interests you.

3. Know it, it’s time to chase your next dream, when ‘what next?’ grabs your attention. When you desperately open your Dream book and start ticking what’s done, what’s left and what’s next. Plan it and do it now.

4. Know it, it’s time to turn the page and embrace everything that awaits you, when you start dwelling on the past all over again. Remember, if one is to live, one must learn to shoulder the burdens of the past and move on.

आना जब बेतहाशा हो, तो फिर क्यों न तमाशा हो...

Why would we leave when we desire so much to be here?

Simple because we know him/her better now and understood the unsettling’s which we avoided earlier out of desperation of falling in love, which is now hurting our self-respect and making us miserable. As our life revolves around binary Numbers like ‘0 zero’ or ‘1 one’, here is the same ‘either’ and ‘or’; EITHER continue being into the relationship which is very much obvious, OR call it quits which is weighs so heavily on your soul. We give it a chance again and again, for the reason we started. We quit because this relationship is making us miserable and continuously sad that means we are unhappy. We quit if the only memories we are now creating is biting our heart and bringing tears to our eyes. We quit when we all want is to feel loved and wanted and this relationship does not provide one. We quit when the person we are with broke our trust and we don’t believe it to be reparable or if this person don’t even make an effort to repair it. We quit when this person does not respect our emotions and take us for granted every now and then just because he knows he is wanted. So our best option is to walk out the door and leave it behind, which is simply not worth our time. We deserve to be loved for being the wonderful, unique person we are. There’s no reason to allow ourselves to be with such a person. There are people out there who will love us for what we are. We just need to find them.

उसूलों पे जहाँ आँच आए टकराना ज़रूरी है, जो ज़िंदा हों तो फिर ज़िंदा नज़र आना ज़रूरी है..

What is the Correct time to Let Go ???

I kept reading ‘let go the things which takes your peace away’, it tempts me every time i read it, as usually found myself lost into the thought of being happy ever after. Every girl dream of a Prince who will come and take her away on his white horse like in fairy tales, so do i, in the age of 28. My mother repeatedly used to say these words ‘Saam, Daam, Dand, Bhed’ and i willingly never concentrated on the same however the truth is we always act in the way we have learned in our childhood and may be this is why we say ‘Do Develop Moral Values In Your Children’ as this is what they will always follow. They will keep learning all ages however will never forget the origin. I don’t remember if my mom ever taught me what is next to these four ‘Saam (Pacifying), Daam (Charity), Dand (Punishment), Bhed (divide)’. May be she wanted me to discover the same my own. Next is nothing but the correct time to ‘LET GO’.  Somebody correctly said "Lots of things can be fixed. Things can be fixed. But many times, relationships between people cannot be fixed, because they should not be fixed. You're aboard a ship setting sail, and the other person has joined the inland circus, or is boarding a different ship, and you just can't be with each other anymore. Because you shouldn't be". It’s nothing like who is wrong and who is right, it’s all about something else is more deserving to you. YES, It’s not going to be easy but then who said happiness is served as a gift on gold plate. We have to earn it and for this we have to put in efforts 'The More, The Merrier'. I guess it’s the correct time to Hold My Head High Gorgeously.

एक सफ़र ऐसा भी होता है दोस्तों, जिसमें पैर नहीं दिल थक जाता है...!

Not just a winning method, it’s a MANTRA…!

We keep hearing Mumbai life is very fast. Also, we very well know it’s an organized and fully grown city. I kept wondering why all the cities renowned as metro city is fast in living? And why only fast cities are renowned and named as metro city? None of the answers comforted me so I left these questions in my mind to get answered. I usually sits with the people who eases my thoughts and inspires me to dream more and big. So I asked, what is the mantra to achieve what we want and he immediately answered ‘PACE’. Therefore I went silent. ‘Dream’ ‘Believe’ ‘Pace’ ‘Union’ are the terms play tennis together in my mind and I could never hold all of them together strongly. Every term has a story and every story itself is a mantra. Thereafter I concluded, People who have dreams, form union and speed there activities to prove there believes. Henceforth This is what Mumbai is! No vision and you perish; No Ideal, and you’re lost. Your heart must ever cherish some faith at any cost. Some hope, some dream to cling to, some rainbow in the sky, some melody to sing to, some service that is high.

आवाज़ उठा कदमो को मिला, रफ़्तार जरा कुछ और बढ़ा,

तू बोलेगी, मुंह खोलेगी, तब ही तो, ताना बना बदलेगा..!