Is it really a ‘Part Of Life’ or we just comfort ourselves by saying so?

Just  learned about ‘Learning Curve’ which almost stipulates that practice makes a man perfect, a job which used to happen in 2hrs can be done in 30mins with perfection however continuous participation is an obligation. Don’t know what is life all about, is it about Living? Loving? Being Human? Or just to say Part Of Life, face it? Would not say life always have thrown threats as I have always selected smiles and accepted threats as a Part Of Life to deal with, unfortunately every threat tried to demolish every single smile I elected. Today I agree there comes, a stage in life when countless threats cannot even shake you. And, dealing with these continuously makes you perfect. I am a participant of an action movie where bombs are falling from everywhere also I am one RajniKant who is dealing with one by one without integrating each other or together without a mix. Therefore I am the perfect and real time example of ‘Learning Curve’ which PMI may use in their books. Positive enough to hold myself and keeps on appreciating motivational quotes yet human enough to get scared deep inside plus too terrified to tell myself. Doesn't want to ask WHY? anymore as I have learned accepting what god has to offer but this WHY? still haunts me. Does this mean that there was a void in my acceptance? Or acceptance means ‘what we allow is what will continue!’ Well I still believe there is an end to everything whether it’s a movie or my threats. I completely disagree to the statement ‘Part Of Life’ as it’s NOT THE PART OF LIFE at all yet would say ‘Part Of Life’ as have to choice.

ज़ेहन में तेरा कोई नक़्श बिगड़ने न दिया, एक तू है जिसे हालात से बाहर रक्खा....

Somethings are only about being On-Time

No-one here is satisfied with what one has and one should not even as needs do inventions. Emotional breakdown at times is one of the symptoms of being human. Being bad kills you, being good kills you and being both – please teach me HOW! Also feeling like an alien where there is no one who really can read or understand you where else you are just an object to experiment on and gain something out of you. Putting up a brave front is the only choice to survive no matter this is your choice or not. Giving Love and getting love is not difficult however ‘a thing’ that touches you also everything else gets hazy is anonymous. The arms where you are protected, you are loved with no obligations and you can be real you is still a mystery. In movies people are so lucky despite of everything or anything, people gets hug timely known as ‘Jaddu Ki Jhappi’ and in reality one has to go long way to get the same and the time one gets it is the time needs get vanish and leaves one hungry for the next time, here comes a realization of being alone though there are people around yet none reaches you on time and you end up hugging your teddy and sleep. People says there is a thin line between ‘Want’ and ‘need’ however I would say there is a huge difference as ‘wants’ can only be appreciated after ‘needs’ are fulfilled.

मेरे ग़म क़ाबिल-ए-तारीफ है कशिश तेरी...टीस उठती है तो जीने का गुमाँ होता हैं...

My Sweet and Sour Life

After all the learnings learned, I guess I figured out my life. We heard everyone takes birth with some LIFE LINE however this life line contains two parallel lines one SWEET second SOUR. Also, human has a tendency to give more wattage to the negative thing and loses the opportunity to smile while positive happening. I believe if we start ignoring the Sour and keeps concentration on sweet I am sure we will attract more sweets in life. Well, according to me life is nothing, it’s all about living good, we are human and should behave like human, we should accept what life has to offer and fight for the rest but it does not mean we should lose our humanity or stop smiling. Though life is a vast topic however it seems small to me now. Human is already been awarded by so many emotions and it’s good to feel all of them as every emotion has its own importance also exceptionally different from one another however we should not forget that extreme of anything is bad. It’s our duty to normalize every emotion. Here again we can differentiate emotions in two GOOD and BAD, Good ones are those which makes u feel better, happy, smile, in peace or satisfied and Bad one’s which makes you feel cry, sad, painful or hurting. Here I didn’t mean you to avoid bad one’s as I said every emotions has its own value however we can always ignore them and can concentrate to Good ones. It brings us peace and also helps us to normalize or solve the problem fast due to which we are in pain. I am not asking you to offer your second cheek if somebody hits you on the first however we can always walk away from there and help ourselves to control our anger. Life is all about living well. It’s all about generating Love to ourselves by proving to others as this world is nothing but a mirror and whatever we give we get it back. Love is again a synonym to smile, laugh, feel good and being happy. And, One should make sure of doing something which puts one in a great mood as one will be able to regenerate oneself and find new inner harmony, it will help you to have heap of energy also will help you to choose a solution even if you have to make sacrifices ultimately and induce you to look for new ways to enjoy yourself. I at times get so confused how to react I should be happy because of good or sad because of bad else what? Being neutral is again seems to be a challenge. I understand it’s very difficult to make ourselves concentrating on good for entire day but this is what a SECRET OF LIFE is all about. Just keep doing what inspires you and rest will be taken care of.

One of my friends once said ‘She is in total acceptance of whatever God has to offer’, I found it inspiring however difficult but I figured it out and now even I can say this proudly “I AM IN TOTAL ACCEPTANCE OF WHATEVER GOD HAS TO OFFER” Thank You Anjali!

Independent personality traits......!

A person, who do things behind the bars, afraid of public notice, buy enjoyment with lies, Approval is an obligation while decision making, and dreams seems ‘not easy’ only due to society, is not an independent person, no matter one is staying alone, has a furnished house, owner of a big car, earning good, capable in achieving dreams and how well he wears bold attitude, if one is limited by mentioned traits than one is not self-regulating. Well again, if some suggestion changes your mind and you changes your decision it’s the one thing however if you find it correct and not able to do it due to declared attributes than it simply means one is still not self-governing.

Well a person who takes his life in his hand moreover do not blame anybody for his mistakes and failures, is an independent person in actual. One who is not bound to obtain authorization while making some decision, has supremacy to implement his choices rather acquiring joy on lie or by hiding reality. Most importantly he is not afraid of people while stepping and scared of announcements. One, who believes that society is nothing but  an illusion who will ask him to be himself yet will judge him. So doesn't let public label him or manipulate him and never let them take his smile away. Society makes our act tough so don’t let them bother us and let’s not waste time with those who don’t even acknowledge your existence

Better light a candle than curse the darkness.