Well I been always lucky to have classmates with no politics and
loads of respect for each other however kept wondering, if we don’t bias each
other than why do we still have groups everywhere, My desire to understand the
same increased day by day and I did come to many conclusions however none of
them fulfilled me. Moreover inspired me to learn about human psychology. Well, I never
realized the fact that while moving deep into the topic I am actually
attracting it in my life and at this instant I understood why we always have
groups? Why we cannot be with everybody? It is simply because ‘Birds of a
feather do flock together’. We learn from many, We get inspired from many, We
talk to many however we spend time only with likeminded people. And this is the
reason we have groups everywhere. Correspondingly helped me to conclude that a
big part of who we are is determined by the people we hang with. Therefore make
sure we are associated with people we aspire to be alike, this helps us to visualize our future self, in addition to it we know what we can visualize actually happens. Hence if we want to change ourselves or our lifestyle, then
it’s the time to change the people we associate with. To keep
building success, make sure we associate with other successful people.
Sometimes, that means not hanging around with old friends as much, or letting
them go completely. It really depends on our goals. If we aspired more than
what our friends want to achieve, then we are going to have to find others at our
level or above and start associating with them. This is why the rich get
richer. If you want to become rich, then you need to hang out with the rich.
सुबह की आँखोँ से देखो- जिँदगी कितनी 'खूबसूरत' है...
शाम तक पता चल जायेगा- तुम्हे "किसकी".........किसे 'तुम्हारी' जरूरत है !
शाम तक पता चल जायेगा- तुम्हे "किसकी".........किसे 'तुम्हारी' जरूरत है !